Just something I found in my journal that I thought might be helpful for you guys, especially bringing in the new year :) At this age, we think we’re supposed to know what we’re doing. We think that we can figure out our whole lives in a matter of minutes. With planning and goal-setting. The […]
I have had some unfortunate relationship issues recently. I won’t go into detail, but it’s important to mention since I am about to tell you guys how optimism has shown up in my life this month. Experiencing heartbreak while simultaneously moving to a new city for work may have been one of the best things […]
If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present. – Lao Tzu I am very guilty of living in the future. So you can only imagine my anxiety on a daily basis. I constantly […]
A few days ago, I lied to a guy about why I hadn’t responded to his text. Now that I’m thinking about it, I’m not really sure why I lied. I’m obviously not interested anymore. I couldn’t even respond to a simple message that said “Hey.” But why didn’t I just tell him that? It’s […]
If you say that you are going to help someone with something, do it. Don’t wait for them to come back to you months later and say, “Hey, did you do that thing for me yet?” Complete the task immediately/as soon as you can. This will build trust. That person will now appreciate your character, […]
Don’t hold grudges. Get over it! Forgiveness is so important if you want to live a life of peace. If you cut off everyone who has ever made a mistake or rubbed you the wrong way, you might as well cut yourself off too. Take note of actions. Just don’t dwell on them.
Many of us get so caught up in relationships we don’t realize we had lives before that person showed up. I wanted to write this letter to show women that there are valuable lessons you learn from your past partners. And yes, it is okay to cry, but eventually you should take a moment to think […]